Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Change Is Upon Me

So I have thought a lot about what to say, how to say it, and even if I should post anything about this. My life has been changing so much and words cannot express everything. After much thought and consideration Dan and I decided that we are going to seperate. It has been the hardest decision we have both had to make, but it feels like the right thing to do. I am sure I have friends that this may come as a shock to, so I am sorry if I had not informed you. I think the lack of telling people was in hopes that things would work themselves out. As I am sure many of you are concerned about me, I am holding up pretty well. I am happy to talk to anyone about if you would like.
I had two of the cutest girls move into the house with me and I adore them. I met Ashley at the Tree Room at Sundance, and Chelsi is a friend of hers (and now mine). Ashley has tackled projects just like me and ripped up the carpet in the downstairs bedroom to find hardwood floor. She rented a sander and refinished the floor. Bless her soul she is brave and has done such an amazing job. Chelsi is so wonderful to Millie. She absolutely adores her. She takes her to the park and plays fetch. I got a text message the other day saying she bought Millie a White Chocolate Dog bone. She is so great. A few nights ago we sat on the patio and answered questions from the game Loaded Questions. It was so fun to get to know the two of them. I don't know what the future holds, but here is to the new chapter of my life.

16 comments:

Lindsey said...

Lacy you are so wonderful and life is so hard sometimes. I am sorry you are going through this time, but as always I am here for you now and forever! You are my best friend and I couldn't have asked for a better one!! Love you tons!!

Janelle Jensen said...

Love your face always and forever! I think I have already given you all the advice I can think of but I think of. See you soon for many dinners at my house!

Em said...

Love you LW!!!!!

{lizzythebotanist} said...

i guess i'm one of the ones who are shocked by the news-what a tough decision. sorry you've been going through all this and i've been clueless! hope you're doing okay-sounds like you're in good hands with fun/nice new roommates! and cute new blog layout!

emilie s. d. p. said...

I'm so glad you've found some fun girls to live with. I know things will work out for you and I hope you always remember how wonderful you are!

Kipp and Ashlee said...

Lacy, I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this right now. It takes a brave person to make a hard decision like that, and I'm proud of you for making it if you know that's the right decision for both of you. Sounds like you have so much great support surrounding you, and I'm glad your roomies are spoiling Millie=). Love and miss ya!!

LeAnn said...

I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this tough time right now. I wish you the best of luck with your new roommates, hopefully everything will work out for the best no matter what happens.

Chris Linds & Maddie said...

Lacy- This is shocking to me as well, but you are strong, and I know you can make it through anything. I hope you find peace in your decision, and truly wish you all the best. Call me if you ever want to talk. Love You!

tEaGaN said...

Lacey... I am also one of those ones who is shocked. I feel so bad that I wasn't there when you could use a friend. I know you are strong though and will work through this just like any other problem. Hang tough! Know you can call when ever you would like, and my house is always open for meals... Love ya!

Nate & Brittany said...

Lacy, I love you and I am here for you when ever you need me! I'm glad that the roommate thing worked out and I know that you will do great with this new chapter! You are such a strong girl! Love you!

Brandy & Doug said...

Oh Lacy! I have been thinking about you so often! I have been so worried about you lately! I now know why. I am so sorry that you are going through all of this. I know that it is hard. I want you to know that you can talk to me anytime you need to! I love you tons!!! Let me know if I can help you out in any way!

Burt Bunch said...

Lacy I love you and you have always been such a great friend and influence to anyone you are around! I am here for you if you ever need anything! Love you lots!

Jenna said...

Lacy,

I'm reminded of the time in high school that a whole bunch of us went to lunch, you drove and I drove, and on the way back you got pulled over and I got in a car accident. I'm not exactly sure where I'm going with this story, but just that you were able to laugh about the whole thing (then again, it wasn't you who wrecked a car you shared with your brother:). I've always thought of you as someone who has perspective and the ability to deal with whatever comes. You're awesome and I hope all the best for you!

Sondra said...

Lacy! I know we aren't super close or anything but I wish the best for you and I hope all is going well with your new roommates. It sounds like they are awesome, which I am sure is nice to have at this point in time! I love you and I think you are an amazing person!

Lisa Marie Crosby said...

We're here for you girl! Love you.

Lauren Ricci said...

I am extremely sorry to hear about your recent separation but at the same time, you have to make yourself happy and it takes a very courageous person to make that decision. Marriage is the hardest thing I have ever endured and I know it is not an easy road. I wish you the best as you embark on this new chapter.